Equally Applied to All – just/fair, functional, common sense – some questions

It’s hard to live out this principle in relationships/families. People like different things and have different talents. And one person might be a better follower and the other a better leader.

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• So how do you share resources in such a way that everyone is happy and supported?
• So the resources actually work for the group or couple?
• So the resources are renewable?

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• Do you have a tally sheet?
• Or do you figure it’ll come out in the wash if y’all love each other?
• Do you have a buffer zone in case one member has a sudden or prolonged higher need?

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• Is one person more responsible as the gatherer? One as the preparer?
• Or do you take turns?

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• What do you do if a resource(s) is no longer available? Or lesser available?
• Is one member meant to leave the group/couple? And if so, how do you decide which member?

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I guess one has to ask if there really is such a thing as true equality? Or am I asking for the wrong thing?