Q – We talk about freedom and boundaries a lot. But what is the distinction to you?

• In order to have the protection of society we have to live by it’s rules. don’t we?
• And in order to be in a relationship and have a healthy sense of self, we have to have boundaries.
• In order to be in a healthy D/s or M/s relationship, we have to reach an agreement of what we want from our other. And follow thru on what we said.

We have parents, bosses, co-workers, teachers and the govt and police who have rules, boundaries and expectations and who at min get offended or shun and/or punish us if we don’t adhere to them.

We have concepts and definitions that we agree to, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that we all follow them. Does it?

So where in that does freedom reside? Is freedom an ideal or a reality? What is freedom to you, and do you feel you have it in your life?