Q for Women, LGBTQ+, & BIPOC in Kink

Whether shaping the community you practice in, or working with your partner(s), do you think you have an easier or tougher time of it than your peers do?

• Do you have as much access to the power table?
• Do you get asked to ‘serve’ vs ‘lead’?
• Do you get asked to exhibit or speak at functions?
• Do you feel taken advantage of at times?
• Is your voice repped and heard by the community?
• Are you in the majority or one of the few?
• Is there a big difference between your share of the power and influence in kink and in your vanilla relationships?

Something to mull over or answer if you wish.