There are so many ways to look at this. To a certain point, you want to fit into the current spirit of your culture, your social group and family. Don’t you? Certainly when you’re a kid and reliant on their good will to survive. But isn’t there a point when you want to/need to individuate?
Just not too much, I guess or you get labelled as odd, eccentric and too much of that gets you called names doctors give you. Which can get you put in a jail or mental health famility.
But then we need people who are different at some level in the arts, sports…. to be that OTT one who shines and does something unique. Something exciting, brilliant.
So when is it crazy, odd, or something that flairs so we keep changing the game posts of entertainment and innovation? ummmm….