on the 12 days of xmas song: her first wish list

On the 12 days of xmas song: Her first wish list (a story/song conversion)

I don’t do findom. This is a story. This wish list does not exist on the internet. Or … er… At least not by me.

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The xmas song was going thru her head as she was looking thru a kinky toys catalogue her local sex shop had out. She was imagining little elves bringing the stuff to her door as she sang it over and over. It appears she had an ear worm. Funny how xmas songs did that, huh?
When she finally had her list written, she posted it and waited to see if anyone would take her up on it. She didn’t have a stable of pay-pigs yet. So she crossed her fingers and hoped… and hoped. Singing the song as her good luck charm.

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to the tune of Bing Crosby and the Andrews Sisters – The Twelve Days Of Christmas

On the first day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
A Clitoral Vibrator

On the second day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the third day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the fourth day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the fifth day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Five French ticklers
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the sixth day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Six Anal Douches
Five French ticklers
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the seventh day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Seven leather corsets
Six Anal Douches
Five French ticklers
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the eighth day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Eight catheter bags
Seven leather corsets
Six Anal Douches
Five French ticklers
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the ninth day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Nine rings and sounders
Eight catheter bags
Seven leather corsets
Six Anal Douches
Five French ticklers
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the tenth day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Ten anal plug sets
Nine rings and sounders
Eight catheter bags
Seven leather corsets
Six Anal Douches
Five French ticklers
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the eleventh day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Eleven vibrating eggs
Ten anal plug sets
Nine rings and sounders
Eight catheter bags
Seven leather corsets
Six Anal Douches
Five French ticklers
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

On the twelfth day of dumb-nance
My twue sub gave to me
Twelve leather collars
Eleven vibrating eggs
Ten anal plug sets
Nine rings and sounders
Eight catheter bags
Seven leather corsets
Six Anal Douches
Five French ticklers
Four strap on dicks
Three long tails
Two ben wa balls
And a Clitoral Vibrator

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On xmas morning, her mailman came to her door with a big grin on his face. And handed her the screen to sign. Then left her with the box, full of everything her song had asked for and a list of names of the people who had given her the items.
She now had her start up kit. She was in business!

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hehe! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

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XMAS FEMDOM ADVENT CALENDAR

XMAS FEMDOM ADVENT CALENDAR

Kinky xmas…. Mistress was going to be away till xmas.  So she put me in chastity and left some advent tasks for me, which I was to do and take pix to send to her as proof. As an advent calendar for her weekends.  There was a box which she said contained everything I’d need in it. She barely got out the door before I opened it. I was so excited!!

I started out as Grinch

Sat 1 Decorate the tree

Sun 2 Decorate me with xmas lights
Sat 8 Set out the candles

Sun 9 Use the candles on me/CBT

Sat 15 clean the fireplace and bake cookies to get ready for Santa

Sun 16 hang the stockings and do my chores in shackles, hands and feet

Sat 22 wash the windows and decorate them with fake snow and a filligree stencil

Sun 23 shave me and paint me all over
Mistress made it home before Santa came. And we came before he did.  Whew! We were both pleased! And she loved the calendar too.
I felt like I was Santa!
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!

 

 

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positive criticism

positive criticism

positive criticism
I know it’s hard to give and take criticism, but there are ways to do it that make it more palatable for both parties involved. I tend to prefer my critics to be someone who I trust, who is generally a fan of what I’m trying to achieve, has some experience in what I’m trying to do, and phrases things in a positive way. If you raise your voice, or use vulgar language, you’ve lost me. That isn’t criticism IMO
If you want to know more:

definition

A recommended set of instructions that aims to collaboratively improve the overall quality of a product or service. Often containing helpful and specific suggestions for positive change, constructive criticism is highly focused on a particular issue or set of issues, as opposed to providing general feedback on the item or organization as a whole.

6 tips on giving positive criticism

1. feedback sandwich – PIP, which stands for Positive-Improvement-Positive
2. Constructive criticism focuses on the situation, not the person.
3. Be specific with your feedback
4. Comment on things that are actionable
5. Give recommendations on how to improve
6. When providing criticism, do so within what you know as fact about the person and the subject. Don’t make assumptions

6 tips to receive criticism positively

1. Stop Your First Reaction. Try to stay calm.
2. Remember the Benefit of Getting Feedback
3. Listen for Understanding
4. Say Thank You
5. Ask Questions to Deconstruct the Feedback
6. Request Time to Follow Up