The “He’s Good to Me” Defence

It strikes me as bizarre when a bunch of really strong women side with their friend when a bunch of victims come forward with allegations about rape or molestation. So I wanted to raise that and the reasons why both might be true. These are some common sense possibilities:

In molestation,

• he’s probably not going to be into you because you aren’t a helpless, scared, vulnerable child.
• or if you were a kid, maybe you just weren’t his type. Even pedophiles have things they like: looks, body type, age range, attitude.
• even pedos have a certain relationship they like. It might be that they want someone who they can control, count on to keep things secret, or at least someone they can keep away from the world and those who’d be able to help the child charge or get away from them
• they mght be looking for someone they have common interests with. Partly due to that’s an easy lure, And partly due to the pedo is fixated at about that age, due to some trauma.
• they also might not have an “excuse”. If they are sober and alert, then they can’t say they were out of control and couldn’t help themselves, can they? Not all addicts are pedos, but if you look at the stats, a lot of molestations take place under the influence.
• They might not be able to groom you. Or think of a way to cover up their actions toward you.

in rape:

• you’re just not his type! Maybe you have small boobs and he likes big boobs, Or the opposite. Maybe you have blond hair and he likes brunettes. Even rapists have things they like: looks, body type, age range, attitude.
• Even rapists have a certain relationship they like. It might be that they want someone who they can control, count on to keep things secret, or at least someone they can keep away from the world and those who’d be able to help the victim charge or get away from them
• they mght be looking for someone they have common interests with.
• they also might not have an “excuse”. If they are sober and alert, then they can’t say they were out of control and couldn’t help themselves, can they? Not all addicts are rapists, but if you look at the stats, a lot of rapes take place under the influence.
• They might not be able to groom you. Or think of a way to cover up their actions toward you.

So ok, you hear one story about your friend, and you have to decide if that person is credible or not. You hear two stories and you have to wonder (a bit less mind you) if that person is credible…
How many does it take before you look at your friend and go “dude, you’re a predator!”?

Again, sure he’s always been good to you and you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but maybe he’s just not into you. Aren’t you lucky!

And if he’s a sociopath, they are intellligent, charming and can get into positions of power and influence. They hide in places that are good covers for their bad deeds. And money can buy a whole lot of silence and complicity… j/s.

And if it’s a she, it’s the perfect cover, isn’t it? How can a person with no penis who is smaller rape or molest? (As a domme I can think of one option, a dildo)

Can you think of anything else?