domme’s mailbox

Spend a day in a domme’s mailbox

before you judge her for being jaded.

• Dear domme, I wanna be spanked, will you spank me? No? Why you being a bitch?
• Dear domme, hubby and I wanna be trained for one of us to dom the other, will you show us how? No? Well you’re probably a bore anyway!
• Dear domme, we’re going to be in town this weekend, we’ll pay you to have sex with us. No? What do you mean you’re busy? We want you now! Need more money?
• Dear domme you are so sexy, I masturbate to your pix all the time! I have this fetish. Will you do it for me?
• Dear domme, hubby and I wanna unicorn
• Dear domme, if I serve you will you wank me spank me. fulfill my needs?
• Dear domme, i think your a sub and haven’t met me yet. I’ll do this to you and you’ll change your bratty ways soon enough. What do you mean I should serve you!? I’m a dom!

(Letter samples edited of foul language and typos cuzz I just don’t write that!)

There’s a small sample of what 99.9% of what we get from strangers is like. Self serving mssgs from strangers that are intrusive; and when you ignore them, they harrass you; and when you refuse them they get petulent and rude.
So you ask them to prove they are a sub in some way. Perhaps a gift, perhaps some act that shames them, perhaps a task they must complete but won’t; perhaps actually carrying out things toward their fantasy they’ve discussed with you, then getting told you don’t know how to domme cuzz they got scared or weirded out; perhaps just being a friend for a good while before they’re allowed to discuss sex or fetishes.

And in return you get called horrible gender-specific names for not allowing them to be rude to you? Um hmm why isn’t this giving me warm fuzzy feefees?

I know that most women get this to an extent. but from subs who claim they want to serve you? Who claim they would adore you? I ofen wonder if they know what that means. They treat dommes like whores; whether fin, pro or lifestyle and wonder why they get rejected? You dehumanize us and you wonder why we have bad attitudes? That’s why.

We have jobs, we have family, and we have friends. Our time is ours, not yours! You have to show us you are worthy of our attention. THEN and only THEN will we share some of it with you. IF you show us you actually DO want to serve us. And only then!